So many sex partners?

Okay what is this thing with certain people's inability to say no. Its like they want they want their performance to be known. Is it... maybe ... they feel that should they turn down a sexual offer from an attractive lady... they could be called sissy?

Jealousy when others change...?

Why is it that if we know change is the only thing that is constant, and we always changing... why is hard to accept change in others?
People grow, grow towards us or away from us? Easy to accept if they are growing towards us, because that means that te friensdip is strong... but when somebody grows away.... why is it easy to write them off?
A person could return to us, in a better position to explain what they were going through?
Could it be jealousy... because they could be changing for the better?

individuality

Sometimes i feel that we are who others want us to be, as much as I we want to believe we are independant. We are made of a soceity... and our thinking is therefore influenced by them...
Now how far could this extension be blamed?
Do we learn to love somebody who soceity has subtly taught us ot love?

Controversy

Aren't we all controversial. Especially when an unusual situation arises, we can do that which we do not believ in. Like fighting fo thieves when we believe we are peaceful.